30+ Marriage Prayers to Strengthen Your Relationship with God and Each Other
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Struggling to feel connected in your marriage lately? Maybe things feel off, like you’re missing each other, even while sharing the same space. Marriage prayers can help bring you back together. These aren’t just nice words to say. They’re powerful, Spirit-led moments that invite God right into the middle of your relationship. When marriage feels joyful or when it feels heavy, marriage prayers keep your hearts anchored in something eternal.
In this post, you’ll find over 30 marriage prayers to help you build an emotional and spiritual connection with your spouse. These prayers are organized by themes: unity, intimacy, trust, struggle, and more. You’ll also find daily prayers with Scripture, prayers for husbands and wives to speak over each other, and a free 30-day printable prayer calendar to guide your journey together.
What the Bible Says About Prayer in Marriage
God designed marriage as a covenant, not a contract. And at the heart of every covenant is communication, not just with each other but with Him. Prayer invites God into the daily moments, the tough conversations, and the places where we need healing.
Ecclesiastes 4:12 says, “A cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart.” That third strand is God. Marriage prayers are how we keep that cord strong. Philippians 4:6 reminds us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and pleading with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”
Prayer is not a last resort in marriage. It’s a daily rhythm of dependence, humility, and hope.
“A cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart.”
Ecclesiastes 4:12
How to Pray Together as a Couple
For many couples, praying together feels awkward at first. You might feel unsure of what to say or worry it won’t come out right. The truth is, prayer doesn’t have to be polished. It just needs to be real.
Start small. Hold hands. Speak one or two sentences from the heart. You can use this simple structure:
- Scripture: Read a verse aloud
- Speak: Each person prays a short prayer aloud
- Silence: Pause for a moment to be still before God
If you miss a night or a morning, don’t feel guilty. Just return. God’s mercy is new every morning.
10 Foundational Prayers for Every Marriage
Prayer for Unity Lord, make us one. Not just in name, but in purpose, in heart, and in Spirit. Knit us together so we stand strong against anything that pulls us apart.
Prayer for Communication God, help us speak kindly and listen well. Give us the courage to be honest and the wisdom to be gentle.
Prayer for Intimacy Father, renew our physical and emotional intimacy. Let our love be tender, pure, and joyful.
Prayer for Emotional Healing Jesus, heal the places in us that still carry pain. Help us to be safe places for each other’s hearts.
Prayer for Forgiveness Lord, soften our hearts when we hurt each other. Teach us to forgive quickly, fully, and freely.
Prayer for Trust God, help us to trust each other with our words, our weaknesses, and our futures.
Prayer for Purpose Jesus, show us how our marriage can serve You. Let us be a team that brings Your love to the world.
Prayer for Joy Father, let our home be filled with laughter. Help us celebrate even the small moments.
Prayer for Growth in Faith, Lord, grow our faith, together and individually. Help us follow You hand-in-hand.
Prayer for Humility God, guard us from pride. Help us serve each other with humble hearts.
10 Daily Marriage Prayers with Scripture
Monday Scripture: Ephesians 4:2-3 Prayer: Help us walk in humility and gentleness today. Let peace guide our words and unity shape our hearts.
Tuesday Scripture: James 1:5 Prayer: Give us wisdom for the decisions we face. Speak clearly as we seek Your will together.
Wednesday Scripture: Colossians 3:13 Prayer: Teach us to bear with one another and forgive. Let grace rule our home.
Thursday Scripture: Romans 15:5-6 Prayer: Fill us with endurance and encouragement. Let us glorify You with one voice.
Friday Scripture: 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Prayer: Grow our love to be patient, kind, and strong. Let us protect and trust each other deeply.
Saturday Scripture: Galatians 6:9 Prayer: Help us not to grow weary in doing good. Refresh us in the work of loving well.
Sunday Scripture: Psalm 127:1 Prayer: Build our home, Lord. Without You, our efforts are empty.
Bonus Days:
Day 8 Scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6 Prayer: Help us trust You with our future. Make our paths straight.
Day 9 Scripture: Philippians 2:3 Prayer: Help us value each other above ourselves and look to each other’s needs.
Day 10 Scripture: 2 Corinthians 12:9 Prayer: Be our strength when we are weak. Your grace is enough for our marriage.
Prayers for Marriage Struggles
Prayer for a Distant Spouse God, bring closeness where there’s been distance. Break down walls and build up connection.
Prayer During Conflict or Anger Lord, calm our hearts and clear our minds. Let us speak truth in love, not in heat.
Prayer for a Struggling Marriage Father, we need Your help. Restore what’s broken. Heal what’s wounded. Bring hope where things feel heavy.
Prayer for Restoration and Forgiveness Jesus, help us begin again. Let mercy rise where pain once lived.
Prayer for Spiritual Warfare in Marriage God, protect our marriage from lies, bitterness, and fear. Cover us in Your armor and truth.
Marriages are always moving from one season to another. Sometimes we find ourselves in winter–discouraged, detached, and dissatisfied; other times we experience springtime, with its openness, hope, and anticipation. On still other occasions we bask in the warmth of summer–comfortable, relaxed, enjoying life. And then comes fall with its uncertainty, negligence, and apprehension. The cycle repeats itself many times throughout the life of a marriage, just as the seasons repeat themselves in nature.
Gary Chapman
Prayers for Husbands to Pray for Wives
- Lord, bless her with peace today. Guard her heart and mind.
- God, remind her how loved she is. Help me love her like You do.
- Jesus, give her strength when she feels weary. Be her anchor.
- Father, grow her faith and fill her with joy.
- Lord, show me how to support her dreams and honor her heart.
Prayers for Wives to Pray for Husbands
- God, guide his steps and give him courage.
- Jesus, bless the work of his hands and lead him with wisdom.
- Lord, protect his heart and help him walk in integrity.
- Father, help me encourage him and speak life over him.
- God, grow our friendship and keep laughter between us.
7 Night Prayers for Couples Before Bed
- Lord, thank You for today. Let Your peace cover us as we sleep.
- God, help us rest in You tonight, body, mind, and heart.
- Jesus, forgive the hurts and renew our bond before we sleep.
- Father, we release tomorrow to You. Keep us close and calm.
- Lord, bless our dreams and restore our strength.
- God, hold us close to You and to each other.
- Thank You, Jesus, for another day of love. We rest in Your grace.
You may enjoy this related post on bedtime prayers for couples.
How to Use These Prayers to Build a Habit
Prayer doesn’t need to be long or fancy. But it does need to be consistent. Try praying:
- At the same time each day (morning, evening, bedtime)
- Before or after reading Scripture together
- Through a prayer journal or text message
- With a calendar or challenge to guide you
You can grab our free 30-Day Marriage Prayer Calendar to help you stay on track.
30-Day Marriage Prayer Calendar (Free PDF)
This printable includes a daily Scripture and themed prayer for each day of the month. You can hang it by your bed, add it to your planner, or keep it in your Bible.
Bonus: Marriage Prayer Challenge (7-Day)
Looking to go deeper? Try our 7-Day Marriage Prayer Challenge. Each day includes:
- A Scripture to read together
- A prayer prompt to use as a couple
- A journal space for reflection
Additional Resources on Marriage Prayer
Praying Circles around Your Marriage by Mark Batterson
The Marriage Gift: 365 Prayers for Our Marriage – A Daily Devotional Journey to Inspire, Encourage, and Transform Us and Our Prayer Life by Aaron Smith, Jennifer Smith
The Power of Prayer to Change Your Marriage by Stormie Omartian
Final Encouragement for Couples
Marriage prayers are about more than fixing problems. They are about building something sacred. When you pray together, you invite God into your love story. Whether your marriage is thriving or just hanging on, there is power in turning to God as one.
Even the smallest prayer matters. Even the shortest moment counts. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be present.
So start tonight. Take your spouse’s hand. Speak a simple prayer. And let God do what only He can.
My Final Thoughts
I hope these marriage prayers breathe new life into your relationship—whether you’re newlyweds learning to pray side by side or you’ve been married for decades and are rediscovering the power of spiritual connection. Prayer has a way of softening hearts, strengthening trust, and opening the door to conversations that matter. If there’s a prayer that really touched you, or if you and your spouse are starting a new rhythm of praying together, I’d truly love to hear your story.
Leave a comment below and share what stood out to you or how prayer is shaping your marriage right now. Your words might be the encouragement someone else needs to keep going. And if you’re looking for a place to grow in faith with other women who love the Lord, come join our She Opens the Bible Study Community Group. It’s a space filled with support, practical tools, and honest encouragement for every season of your walk with God—and your walk with your spouse too.
FAQs About Marriage Prayers
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How long should a marriage prayer be?
It can be as short as one sentence or as long as your heart leads. What matters most is sincerity and consistency.
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Can we pray silently instead of out loud?
Yes. Silent prayers are still heard by God. But praying aloud can strengthen connection and unity.
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What if my spouse doesn’t want to pray?
Start by praying for them privately. You can also model a gentle prayer life and invite them without pressure.
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Do we have to pray together every day?
Daily is great, but grace matters more than perfection. Aim for regular connection without guilt.
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Should we write our own prayers?
Absolutely. You can use written prayers as inspiration or speak from your own heart. Both are beautiful.
About our author…
Sue Nelson is a Christian author, Bible teacher, and conference speaker with a heart for helping women grow deeper in their walk with God. She has written several books on Christian marriage, Proverbs 31 living, verse mapping, and the Twelve Tribes of Israel. Her Bible studies and devotional tools are used by women’s ministries across the United States.
With years of experience teaching Scripture and leading small groups, Sue has spoken at numerous women’s conferences and retreats nationwide. She actively serves in multiple ministries at her home church—including Hospitality, Welcome PSG Corp, and Leaders of the Pack—and is known for her willingness to serve wherever there’s a need.
A wife, mom, grandmother, and proud dog/cat mom, Sue lives a life centered on Christ. She supports a wide range of Christian causes, including Bible distribution, scholarships for faith-based retreats, homeless outreach, food pantries, and clothing ministries.
You can connect with her through her women’s Bible study community, She Opens Her Bible
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